RUTH ANNE (ANNIE) ASHBY Nee HEATHERINGTON, Photo taken at age 18, prior to her departure for New Zealand in 1901)
Ruth Anne, with her sparkling blue eyes and auburn hair, lilting Irish accent, had an outgoing personality, and a genuine concern for people. she made many friends in Auckland. Christina Ashby, Dad's second wife, had similar traits and interests. Edward was the luckiest of men to have had two such loving companions.
Born in Clogher, Co.Tyrone, Annie attended school near Ballygawley. (In 1982 I visited the little one room country school at Lisnaweary - no longer in use - saw the bridge with the rail Uncle Johnny used to walk across on the way to and from school, and, sadly, the remains of the Heatherington cottage) At age 18 Annie came out in a sailing ship (with steam auxiliary) to look after her Uncle Richard's widow, Mary Winslow Dickson, Annie was her companion and nurse for over 20 years (!) until Mary died .
An active member of All Saints Church, Ponsonby, Annie was a Sunday School Teacher for 25 years. She shared her inherited estate with Edward, paid for their long tour of the USA and Canada, bought out Ted's sister's share of the house at No.33, and later sold her own house to provided the capital which carried us through the depression. (The earnings from Dad's tutorial college during th depression being quite minimal). She worked like a trojan, washing clothes out in the detached washhouse, with its the old wooded fired copper boiler, wooden tubs, stirring stick, and hand wringer; baked our bread, cakes and weekend roasts on a coal fired stove of monster proportions; made all my clorthes by hand, as well as her own dresses; knitted out jerseys and cardigans, entertained most weekends, was a dab hand at contract bridge, winning various prizes; and best of all, from my point of view, was a very loving mother to her only son for a short twelve years until she died of a stroke, on 14th November, 1940.
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